Guidelines to Become a Successful and Patient Wife

It legit requires patience and tolerance to run any successful relationship. Especially when talking about being in a marriage, our Islam exactly means “Understanding, Compromise, and Patience” which is indeed the key to receive kind treatment from your spouse.

Allah and His ultimate guide “Qur’an” both instruct wives and their husbands to behave nicely with each other and to maintain a good communication.

To be a successful and patient Muslim wife, we feel honored to highlight some important tips to improve the wife/husband relationship.

5 Guidelines That Will Help Out Every Muslim Wife

These general guidelines will help you to become the right Muslim wife in the light of Quran and Hadiths.

1.     Invest Love and Harmony

These three elements together outgrow a strong relationship mentally and physically. Husband and wife are the natural counterparts of each other.  To attain husband’s satisfaction; a wife should better fulfill the place of a companion and dish out more love and tranquility.

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.  Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought? (30:21)

2.     Disagree Gently

Fights are a sign of a close association to have with your partner. Realize that Allah is aware of your every difficulty so try to maintain peace as anger may result in more hardships.

When your husband arrives from work calm him down and avoid yelling over any argument.

3.     Be Among Pious

Have the vision to seek Allah in your husband’s words and deeds. Remind your husband to do Islamic practices that brings him closer to Allah. Make a dua for your healthy marriage and to avoid uncalled conflicts.

4.     Share Responsibilities Jointly

Neither he nor you are entitled to do the whole work alone. Instead, share different responsibilities and enjoy new tasks every day. A good friendship surely is the soul behind every successful relationship so discover new ways to entertain each other.

5.     Be Ready for Changes

With the passage of time, changes occur and so a wife does not need to be a hot-headed. Remember that achieving patience will take consistent effort and will not happen overnight. To become a patient wife, deal with your anger management problems and take notes from the Quran.

“Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in full, without reckoning.” (Az Zumar, 39:10)”

What Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) Recommended for Patient Wives?

Human beings are not perfect and for this reason, he said the following Hadith to prevent wives from the frustrated outburst.

Abu Sai’id (R.A) and Abu Hurairah (R.A) reported that the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said: “Never a believer is stricken with a discomfort, an illness, an anxiety, a grief or mental worry or even the pricking of a thorn but Allah will expiate his sins on account of his patients.”

Islam recommends wives to express their affection when you see your husband. Show gratitude for everything he does for you and meets goals which inspire him.